This song is about a guy who likes a girl who is alreary in a relationship. This guy knows that the girl is being abused by her current boyfriend and can't understand why she doesn't just leave him. The chorus is this seceret admirer so to speak sort of mocking this abusive guy by asking if hurting this innocent girl makes him feel like a man, and telling him that this can't keep up forever, one day that girl is gonna wise up and leave, and he'll be left with nothing.